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It’s All a Bit Nuts! Cutting Through the Confusion on Nuts, Ageing and Bone Health

As we move into a new year, many have been asking me the same thing: “Amanda, can you help make healthy choices simpler?” Less confusion, contradiction, fewer food rules, and more clarity around what actually supports long-term health. So throughout the year I am going to choose different topics each month, to provide an easy and simple guide to follow. So my first topic of the year is Nuts. Are they good for us? Bad for us? A superfood one day and inflammatory the next? Should we snack on them, avoid them, soak them, roast them – or just give up entirely? The truth, as with most things in wellness, is that nuts can be powerful allies for healthy ageing, bone density and metabolic health, if we choose the right ones, eat sensible amounts, and understand how to pair them. Why Nuts Matter as We Age From our 40s onwards, nutrition becomes less about fueling workouts and more about preserving what we have — bone density, muscle mass, hormonal balance, mitochondrial function (our cells’ energy factories), and brain and heart health. Protein intake becomes increasingly important, particularly for women, while inflammation and oxidative stress begin to play a bigger role in ageing. Nuts contribute to all of these, offering a combination of plant protein, healthy fats, minerals and antioxidants – but not all nuts deliver the same benefits. The Nuts Best Enjoyed in Moderation (or Avoided)! PeanutsDespite their popularity, peanuts aren’t actually nuts – they’re legumes. They are prone to contamination with aflatoxins, toxic moulds that place stress on the liver and immune system. They’re also high in omega-6 fatty acids, which in excess can promote inflammation – not ideal for joint, bone or mitochondrial health. Add to that the highly processed peanut butters on supermarket shelves, and this is one nut best kept for very occasional. Brazil NutsNutritional powerhouses, yes — but also a classic case of “less is more.” Brazil nuts are extremely rich in selenium, vital for thyroid health and antioxidant defence. Just one or two per day is enough. More than that, consumed regularly, can lead to selenium overload, affecting nerves, hair and nails. CashewsCashews are another botanical imposter – technically seeds. I was sad to learn cashews are one of the worst “nuts” to consume – they are more acidic than most nuts and can be harder to digest, especially for those with sensitive stomachs or inflammatory conditions. Also high in fat, high in oxalates (which contribute to kidney stone formation), as well as being highly allergenic. Fine occasionally, but not good as a daily staple for healthy ageing. Pine NutsBeloved in pesto, but surprisingly high in omega-6 fats. Overconsumption may increase oxidative stress and negatively affect mitochondrial function. The good news? Pesto made with walnuts or macadamias is equally delicious — and far more supportive. PeanutsDespite their popularity, peanuts aren’t actually nuts – they’re legumes. They are prone to contamination with aflatoxins, toxic moulds that place stress on the liver and immune system. They’re also high in omega-6 fatty acids, which in excess can promote inflammation – not ideal for joint, bone or mitochondrial health. Add to that the highly processed peanut butters on supermarket shelves, and this is one nut best kept for very occasional. Brazil NutsNutritional powerhouses, yes — but also a classic case of “less is more.” Brazil nuts are extremely rich in selenium, vital for thyroid health and antioxidant defence. Just one or two per day is enough. More than that, consumed regularly, can lead to selenium overload, affecting nerves, hair and nails. CashewsCashews are another botanical imposter – technically seeds. I was sad to learn cashews are one of the worst “nuts” to consume – they are more acidic than most nuts and can be harder to digest, especially for those with sensitive stomachs or inflammatory conditions. Also high in fat, high in oxalates (which contribute to kidney stone formation), as well as being highly allergenic. Fine occasionally, but not good as a daily staple for healthy ageing. Pine NutsBeloved in pesto, but surprisingly high in omega-6 fats. Overconsumption may increase oxidative stress and negatively affect mitochondrial function. The good news? Pesto made with walnuts or macadamias is equally delicious — and far more supportive. The Nuts That Truly Support Healthy Ageing WalnutsRich in omega-3s, walnuts support brain health and help reduce inflammation. A small handful per day, raw or lightly toasted, is plenty. Pair with berries or leafy greens to enhance antioxidant absorption. Because walnuts oxidise easily, store them in the fridge. AlmondsAlmonds are stars when it comes to bone health. They provide calcium, magnesium, phosphorus and vitamin E — all essential for bone density, cardiovascular repair and brain protection. Almonds also help stabilise blood sugar and lower cholesterol. A small handful per day, raw or lightly dry-roasted, works well. Soaking overnight can improve digestibility and improve bio-availability of vitamins and minerals. Macadamia NutsThese are particularly supportive for metabolic health. High in monounsaturated fats, macadamias help lower oxidative stress and support metabolic health. Around 10 per day is ideal. Pair with green tea or dark chocolate for antioxidant synergy. PistachiosOften underestimated, pistachios are excellent for circulation, eye health and vascular flexibility. Rich in L-arginine (a precursor to nitric oxide), they support healthy blood flow, blood pressure and even sexual health. Aim for 30-40 per day, preferably unsalted and in their shells. HazelnutsHazelnuts support skin, nervous system and bone health thanks to their vitamin E and manganese content. They also contain polyphenols that help reduce oxidative damage. Enjoy a small handful a few times a week, ideally with berries or greens. PecansPacked with antioxidants and monounsaturated fats, pecans support heart health and provide zinc and magnesium – important for immunity and bone strength. Bone Health and Ageing Bone health is not just about calcium. It’s about the delicate balance between minerals, hormones, inflammation and mitochondrial energy production. Nuts can play a valuable role, but only when eaten in appropriate amounts and as part of a varied, whole-food diet.

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The Art of Becoming: How Boudoir Photography Is Healing Women from the Inside Out – with Boudoir Photographer Adele Odette

Last week, I stepped into a world where wellness meets artistry, femininity meets courage, and self-worth finds a new language. I met with French photographer Adele Odette, the woman behind By Adele Photography and By Adele Boudoir, to explore her deeply empowering work with women here in Mallorca. Her new studio, tucked just off Paseo Mallorca, feels less like a workplace and more like an elegant Parisian apartment. Saturated in velvety midnight blues and muted smoky greys, it exudes the quiet glamour of a refined French boudoir: intimate yet impeccably tasteful. It is the kind of space that seems to whisper, “You are safe. You are beautiful. You can bloom here.” Before we even begin our conversation, Adèle offers me a quote that summarises her philosophy: “Boudoir is not just about sensual and intimate portraits; it’s about embracing your true essence and reconnecting with your power and beauty. Every session is a journey of self-love and empowerment, helping you see yourself as the powerful, beautiful being you truly are.” And as the afternoon unfolds, I realise she means every word. A Process Rooted in Care, Comfort, and Connection The boudoir experience, Adele explains, begins long before a camera is lifted. Clients are invited to visit the studio in advance—to feel the space, meet her, and begin dissolving any nerves. She even accompanies clients lingerie shopping when needed, offering gentle guidance on pieces that flatter their shape and personality. Whether they shop together or follow her curated preparation guide, women arrive on the day knowing they are in capable, compassionate hands. The first two hours are dedicated entirely to easing in: hair and makeup with a professional artist, time to chat, sip coffee or cava, breathe, and center themselves. “It’s important for women to feel like the main character,” she says. “If you walk in and I say, ‘Right, get into your underwear,’ it doesn’t work. They need time to feel cared for, to land.” Only once the client feels settled and glowing do they begin with the first outfit—always something modest, building confidence gradually as the session progresses. With each pose, each breath, each click of the shutter, Adele guides them with reassuring gentleness: where to place hands, how to angle the chin, where to soften, where to lengthen. You can see it happen—the softening, the opening, the dawning realisation.“By the end, they don’t want to stop,” she smiles. “Something unleashes in them.” A Transformation That Goes Beyond the Lens The results are viewed the same day. After the shoot, while clients enjoy lunch—sometimes joined by a partner—Adele selects the strongest images, preparing a gallery that reveals their transformation. “I’m with them when they see the photos for the first time,” she explains. “Most women have never seen themselves like this. Not selfies, not photos from a partner—this is different. It’s important to reassure them that the beauty they’re seeing is real.” Clients choose from exquisite handmade albums, velvet-covered boxes, wall art, or accordion folios. Some later tell her they revisit their album whenever they’re having a difficult day.“They light candles, put on music, and look through their photos,” she says. “It reconnects them to themselves. It brings the magic back.” Boudoir Packages begin at €950, depending on the products chosen, and the experience typically runs from morning to mid-afternoon. There are also couple sessions—often a wedding gift or anniversary celebration—which she describes as “a beautiful date with a touch of spice.” But she prefers women to shoot alone. “When someone is watching—even a husband—the energy changes. Vulnerability needs privacy. But partners are welcome for the photo reveal.” Adele shoots 500–1,000 images per session, selecting the best for clients to review. She offers personal branding packages as well, ranging from €950 to €5,200 for full-day sessions with photo and video content—perfect for entrepreneurs, creatives, and professionals. Empowerment for Every Woman, Every Age, Every Body One of the most moving aspects of Adele’s work is her commitment to authenticity.“All women, all sizes, all ages,” she emphasises. “I want every woman to feel like it could be them. Not just a certain type of body.” Her clients are predominantly 40+, with many in their 50s, 60s, and even 70s.“Younger women often already feel sexy; older women want to reconnect to that. After children, after divorce, after menopause—they want to rediscover themselves.” She calls herself a “visual healer”—a title she wears with humility but also with truth.“Women come thinking they’re doing this for their husband. But afterwards they say, ‘The gift was for him, yes… but the experience was for me.’” In an age where young girls are drowning in AI-manipulated images of “perfect” bodies, Adele’s mission feels not just relevant but vital. “Real women, real bodies,” she says. “Stretch marks, scars, softness, age—it’s all beautiful. I want young girls to see this and understand that ageing is not something to fear.” We talk about the epidemic of low self-worth among teenagers, particularly girls.“They look at these manipulated AI images and want to be that false illusion,” she sighs. “It creates fear, pressure, mental health issues. This work is my way of offering another narrative—one of truth, softness, strength.” My Own Moment in Front of the Lens Before leaving, I stepped into her boudoir to experience a brief personal branding session myself. Though not lingerie-based, I still felt vulnerable, unsure of where to place my hands, how to sit naturally.   Adele was grounding, warm, and disarmingly intuitive. She guided me gently, turning what started as self-consciousness into something surprisingly enjoyable. By the end, I understood why her clients call the experience healing. A Safe Haven for Self-Rediscovery “You’ve created a sanctuary,” I told her before leaving. “That’s exactly what I want,” she said. “A sanctuary where women can reconnect with their inner and outer beauty. A place to blossom.” If you’re considering a transformative experience—or searching for the perfect gift with meaning this Christmas—Adele offers beautifully packaged gift vouchers. She also provides personal branding sessions designed to elevate entrepreneurs and professionals

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The Top 10 Restaurants in Mallorca to Try in 2025

Mallorca, the largest of Spain’s Balearic Islands, is renowned for its stunning landscapes, crystal-clear waters, and rich history. But over the last 15 years, it’s also gained attention as a culinary hotspot. The island’s dining scene combines traditional Mediterranean flavours, with modern techniques, and locally grown produce, making it an exciting destination for food lovers. Whether you’re in the mood for rustic tapas, fresh seafood, or Michelin-starred experiences, Mallorca has something to satisfy every palate. Here are some of my favourite restaurants in Mallorca to try in 2025, offering a mix of local specialties, innovative dishes, and unforgettable dining experiences. 1. Santi Taura Location: Lloseta & Palma Santi Taura’s eponymous restaurant is a must-visit for those looking to experience the essence of Mallorcan cuisine. Santi, one of the island’s most respected chefs, brings traditional recipes to life with a modern twist. His tasting menu offers a deep dive into the island’s culinary heritage, showcasing locally sourced ingredients in creative ways. The seasonal dishes are always changing, but expect a combination of rustic flavors and refined presentation. Both his Lloseta location and the Palma restaurant continue to showcase his commitment to modernizing traditional Mallorcan dishes. Situated in the Hotel El Llorenc, in La Calatrava,  Dins Santi Tauri is a perfect mix of contemporary twists on the island’s classic flavours, with dishes crafted from seasonal and local ingredients. His approach is rooted in deep respect for Mallorca’s gastronomic traditions, while adding a refined, innovative edge. Must Try: The 11 course menu Origins is an wonderful experience to share with your partner or best friend, alongside their carefully chosen Harmony of wines. 2. Marc Fosh Location: Palma – Hotel Es Convent de la Missio A Michelin-starred restaurant in the heart of Palma, Marc Fosh is a temple of contemporary Mediterranean cooking. Known for his minimalist approach to cuisine, Marc Fosh uses fresh, seasonal ingredients to create visually stunning and flavourful dishes. His tasting menus are a true celebration of Mallorca’s rich food culture, with ingredients sourced from both the island and the Spanish mainland. Must Try: “Sea Bass with almond milk” and “Tiramisu with olive oil and lemon.” 3. Restaurant Sebastian Location: Deià Set against the breathtaking backdrop of the Tramuntana Mountains, Restaurant Sebastian offers a fine-dining experience that showcases the best of Mediterranean flavors with a special focus on local and seasonal ingredients. The restaurant’s sophisticated ambiance, combined with stunning views of the village of Deià, creates a memorable setting for a special evening. Chef Sebastian’s innovative yet refined dishes embrace both Mallorcan traditions and contemporary culinary techniques, making it a must-visit for any food lover on the island. Must Try: “Rack of lamb with a rosemary-honey crust, green bacon beans and potato puree ” and for dessert “Salty caramel iced parfait with chocolate mousse and autumn leafs” 4. Restaurant Mambo Location: Paseo Mallorca 3, Palma Restaurant Mambo offers an attractive, informal urban bistro-style ambiance, run by Brazilian-born chef Gabriel Conti. Located at Paseo Mallorca 3, the restaurant is renowned for its’ sophisticated tapas menu, combined with the “Sea & Mountain” menu, blending modern elegance with a relaxed, inviting atmosphere. Must Try: “Filet Mignon with Perigord sauce” and for dessert “Peach Savayon with vanilla ice cream” 5. Vandal Location: Palma, Santa Catalina A more avant-garde addition to Mallorca’s dining scene, Vandal is a trendy, innovative restaurant that pushes the boundaries of traditional Mallorcan cuisine. Situated in the heart of Palma, Vandal combines modern techniques with international flavours, creating a unique dining experience. The atmosphere is edgy, with a stylish décor that mirrors its creative menu. Must Try: “Pisco Bloody Mary Oyster, “Red Tuna tartare with seaweed paste and Japanese sauce” and for dessert “Childhood Feelings” and interesting dessert with vanilla, popcorn and a chocolate twist, and also part of a solidarity collaboration with the Shambala Foundation, supporting vulnerable young people in Mallorca who lack opportunities and education 6. Bens d’Avall Location: Sóller, on the road to Deia One of Mallorca’s most iconic dining spots, Bens d’Avall offers stunning views of the Tramuntana mountains and the Mediterranean. This restaurant is renowned for its combination of fine dining and breathtaking scenery. The tasting menu features Mediterranean and Mallorcan influences with an emphasis on seasonal produce and local seafood. Open: March to October. Must Try: “Tramuntana Lamb” and “Sustainably caught fish with gif and citrus bouillabase .” 7. Forn de Sant Joan Location: Palma, La Longa Situated in a beautiful 18th-century building in Palma’s historic center, Forn de Sant Joan is a favorite among both locals and tourists. The restaurant is known for its superb Mediterranean-inspired menu, which features an array of fresh seafood, local meats, and carefully crafted pastries. The outdoor terrace is perfect for a summer evening, and the welcoming atmosphere adds to the charm. Must Try: “Tuna with black olives and almond foam” and “Mallorcan almond cake.” 8. El Camino, Palma Location: Palma, Sant Nicolau Restaurant El Camino made waves when it opened a few years ago, and its popularity shows no signs of fading. From the team behind London’s iconic Barrafina, the restaurant is made up almost entirely of an impressively long bar, with chefs working behind in the open kitchen. It remains constantly busy, with a casual yet lively vibe. Order as you go while watching the artistic creation of the modern tapas food preparation beyond. Start with some sizzling Padrón peppers, s. Pair these with a glass of Mallorcan wine from their well-curated list for a truly satisfying experience Must Try: Crispy zucchini flowers filled with gooey goat’s cheese”, and the unbelievably delicious individually prepared tortilla 9. Market Kitchen Palma Location: Palma, Santa Catalina A hidden gem situated beside Santa Catalina market run by the super talented ex-London chef and “fellow of the Royal Academy of Culinary Arts”, Rob Kirby & his wife Amber. Serving up modern British cuisine with a Mediterranean infusion, Market Kitchen offer an exciting fabulously fresh and seasonal full of tasty treats. Really laid back atmosphere coupled with attentive, warm and friendly service.  The

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Wellness Real Estate: The Future of Healthy Living

In an era where health and well-being have become top priorities, the concept of wellness real estate is revolutionizing the way we live. This emerging sector integrates design, technology, and sustainability to create homes and communities that actively support residents’ physical, mental, and emotional well-being. As people seek holistic lifestyles that prioritize longevity and happiness, wellness real estate is rapidly transforming from a luxury trend into a mainstream necessity. What is Wellness Real Estate? Wellness real estate refers to properties that are intentionally designed and built to enhance well-being. This movement extends beyond traditional green building standards by incorporating health-focused elements such as air purification systems, biophilic design, circadian lighting, and community wellness amenities. These homes and communities aim to minimize stress, improve physical health, and promote social engagement. Key Features of Wellness Real Estate 1. Healthy Indoor Environments 2. Biophilic Design & Natural Elements 3. Smart Technology for Health Optimization 4. Fitness and Active Living Spaces 5. Community and Social Wellness The Growing Market for Wellness Real Estate The demand for wellness real estate is on the rise. According to the Global Wellness Institute, the wellness real estate sector is projected to be a multi-trillion-dollar industry, driven by increasing awareness of health-conscious living. Homebuyers and renters alike are seeking environments that not only provide shelter but also actively contribute to their well-being. Why Invest in Wellness Real Estate? The Future of Wellness Real Estate As urbanization continues and lifestyles become increasingly fast-paced, wellness real estate will play a crucial role in shaping how we live. Future innovations may include AI-driven health monitoring in homes, self-sustaining smart communities, and even wellness-centered urban planning. Final Thoughts Wellness real estate is more than just a trend; it’s a transformative shift in the way we build and inhabit spaces. As people become more invested in holistic health, the demand for homes that nurture mind, body, and spirit will only continue to grow. Whether you are a homebuyer, investor, or real estate developer, embracing wellness real estate is a forward-thinking move toward a healthier, more sustainable future. Are you ready to invest in your well-being through real estate? Explore wellness-centered properties today and take the first step towards a healthier lifestyle!

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Sacar Pecho — A Journey of Strength, Hope & Healing from Cancer

I was invited to attend the premiere of Sacar Pecho-Del Viaje Con El Miedo, Standing Tall – The Journey With Fear,  at the Teatro Principal de Palma earlier this month— a deeply moving documentary filmed here in Mallorca. This film features eight women diagnosed with breast cancer, sharing their stories, fears, and triumphs. The experience carried extra weight for me, because one of the protagonists, Sheriellane Pascua, is the Pilipino wife of my late father’s caregiver. They both cared for my father tenderly for the last few years of his life. Seeing Sheriellane on screen, speaking of her experiences, was beautiful, powerful and deeply emotive. Sacar Pecho, directed by Rubén Capilla and Álex Rodríguez and produced by Vivir del Cuento Comunicació, has was submitted for the Balearic Talent Award at the Atlàntida Mallorca Film Fest. More than just a film; it’s a piece of cinematic medicine for anyone who has heard the words, “You have breast cancer.” Its goal is to humanise medicine, raise awareness, and offer solidarity to those facing this disease — with around 800 women diagnosed annually here in the Balearic Islands. The film follows Ana, Mari Pau, Joana, Bel, Mar, Eva, Sheriellane, and Leire — women from very different backgrounds united by one shared journey. Their path spans the rugged beauty of Mallorca’s Serra de Tramuntana, taking them along the GR221 from Pollensa to Andratx over several days. More than hiking, more than camaraderie, the journey becomes a metaphor for the inner landscape of confronting fear, pain, and uncertainty. Oncologist Dr. Antònia Perelló shared how the protagonists open their hearts about the moment of diagnosis, the fear, the support, the setbacks and the rallies. The film reminds us that breast cancer is one of the most common health issues affecting women: in the Balearic Islands, roughly 800 yearly diagnoses; in Spain, 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed in their lifetime. President Llorenç Galmés from the Consell de Mallorca described it as “the clear and courageous voice of women who reveal pain but also strength, life, dignity.” It underscores values that matter deeply: transparency in medicine, emotional authenticity, and the healing power of nature, friendship and movement. Innovations & Hope in Treatment While hearing these stories — especially Sheriellane’s, diagnosed at just 27 and contending with recurrence — reminded me how ruthless breast cancer can be, and thankfully, the remarkable progress in treatment. Cutting-edge advances such as hormone therapies, immunotherapies, and personalised medicine (guided by genetic and molecular profiling) are making care more effective while reducing side effects. Survival rates for early-stage breast cancer are now over 90% at five years, thanks to earlier detection, improved imaging, and systemic therapies. These advances mean breast cancer is increasingly seen not just as a battle to endure, but as a challenge that many overcome and live beyond — with quality, purpose, and hope. Sheriellane’s Story: From Patient to Thriver Sheriellane’s presence in the documentary touched me deeply, but her own words capture her journey best: “I was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015 at the age of 27 while living in Norway. When I later moved to Mallorca to join my fiancé, I suffered a relapse in 2018 when it metastasized into my bone, particularly my sternum. I began treatment through the Spanish national health system, which was so incredible – I shudder to think what might have happened had I still been living in the Philippines. I was also blessed with support by what I firmly believe was divine intervention, from an integrative medical centre, Cell Medicum, where I received therapies to boost my immune system between chemotherapy sessions. This helped me regain enough vitality to find a job while applying for Spanish residency, something for which I will be eternally grateful. Now, 10 years on at 37, I’m not just surviving but thriving. My journey has been about resilience, finding strength in vulnerability, and proving that life can still be full of purpose and joy, despite the challenges.” She adds: “My story isn’t about fighting cancer, it’s about living fully with it. Cancer didn’t take away my dreams — it gave me a louder voice to remind others: don’t wait for life to be perfect to celebrate it. Many people feel silenced by illness. I chose to speak up — through this documentary, social media, and writing — turning what could have been private suffering into public empowerment.” Sheriellane also shared that the documentary is currently nominated at the Atlàntida Film Festival. While the producers have not yet confirmed its next screenings, there is hope it will soon reach other platforms — with English subtitles — so it can inspire an even wider audience. Her most moving words came when she reflected on walking in the Serra de Tramuntana with the other women: “I felt an incredible mix of peace and power. Surrounded by the striking beauty of nature and sisterhood, it was as if the mountains carried our pain but also amplified our strength. In that moment, I wasn’t just a cancer patient — I was a thriver, walking with hope, resilience, and connection.” I was immensely proud of Sheriellane. Her courage at such a young age, her vulnerability and resilience, are inspiring. And thankfully, treatments have improved enormously in recent years. More precision, less invasive techniques, earlier detection — all leading to longer survival, fewer side-effects, and better quality of life. The Takeaway Sacar Pecho is more than a documentary – it’s a rallying cry, a comfort, a lifeline. It shows that a diagnosis doesn’t mean surrender; there is community, there is nature, there is movement; and above all, there is hope. To any woman reading this who is on this journey, or knows someone who is: you are not alone. The path may be rugged, but it is possible to stand tall, to heal, and to live — and live well. Because with each year of medical innovation, each shared story, and each act of compassion, we move closer toward a

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Finding Strength in Vulnerability in The Yeti’s Garden – where Can Bordoy has been transformed into a space where dreams merge with reality with an exhibition by Korean artist Miju Lee.

In the heart of Palma’s old town, behind centuries-old stone walls, sits Can Bordoy Grand House & Garden—a luxury five-star hotel with a beautiful walled garden, where its timeless atmosphere has been suspended in space by the enchanting exhibition of The Yeti’s Garden by Korean artist Miju Lee. Invited to meet PR Manager Monica Cerdá Gómez and Gallery Assistant Abril Furcada I entered the cobbled courtyard and was immediately greeted by a whimsical sculpture: a Yeti, holding a flower, stepping timidly into the world. This gentle yeti is the central figure of Lee’s first exhibition in Spain, a collaboration with Madrid gallery owner Marc Biblioni, who discovered the artist five years ago through social networks. Lee’s path into art was anything but conventional. Originally trained as an industrial designer, she abandoned that career to follow her intuition, moving to Barcelona to study ceramics. It was there she shaped her distinctive voice—fusing Western abstraction with East Asian sensibility. The result is a pictorial language where ambiguity, softness, and fragility aren’t weaknesses, but rather luminous symbols of inner strength. At Can Bordoy, this delicate tension between vulnerability and resilience is embodied in the Yeti—a shy, lumpy figure crouched in stillness, expressionless yet quietly resilient. For Lee, the Yeti is an alter ego, inspired by her childhood dreams. In Himalayan cultures, the Yeti is a guardian spirit, a supernatural force connected to the untamed wilderness and revered as a protector of sacred lands. In Lee’s work, it becomes something even more intimate: a guide through memory, imagination, and the most vulnerable corners of the self. The exhibition, composed of twelve sculptures and paintings, carries viewers into a dreamlike world, where reality and reverie dissolve into one another. In Underwater, positioned on the stairwell beneath the hotel’s rooftop pool, rippling light reflections spill across the canvas, echoing its theme: that life is rarely as it seems on the surface, and that deeper truths reveal themselves only when we dare to look beneath the surface. Another piece, Fuego – The End of the Dream, depicts the Yeti within a mirror overlooking the Hotel’s bar, quietly reminding us of endings that seed new beginnings. Other key elements in Lee’s symbology, such as mushrooms and butterflies, evoke concepts such as ideas or delicacy, with the Yeti being the guide of her world. What struck me most was how seamlessly Lee’s work harmonised with Can Bordoy itself. The hotel already blurs past and present, offering guests a retreat into stillness and beauty. Likewise, Lee’s yetis invite us to pause, to embrace the unknown, to hold space for tenderness in a world that often demands a harsher reality. This exhibition also reflects a refreshing trend in the art world: moving artworks beyond the white walls of galleries and into spaces that breathe with life. Experiencing art in such an environment—surrounded by gardens, stone arches, and the hum of quiet conversations—changes how we receive it. It feels personal, almost like stepping into a friend’s home, where art is lived with rather than simply observed. For those seeking an experience that nurtures both the senses and the spirit, The Yeti’s Garden offers more than visual delight. It is a meditation on vulnerability as beauty, on silence as strength, on the quiet resilience that so often goes unnoticed in our daily lives. Pair it with a cocktail at the bar, or a gastronomic meal at Botànic, the hotel’s ‘plant forward’ organic garden restaurant, and the experience becomes nourishment for both body and soul. If you find yourself in Palma before October 31, don’t miss the chance to wander into Miju Lee’s world. Like the Yeti itself, the exhibition does not dictate meaning—it suggests, it whispers, it leaves room for the magical. Sometimes, the most profound discoveries lie not in what we are told, but in what we are invited to imagine. The Yeti’s Garden by Miju Lee📍 Can Bordoy Grand House & Garden, Forn de la Gloria 14, Palma de Mallorca🗓 Open daily until October 31* Free admission DM Amanda if you have a wellness story to share, or follow Amanda on IG @amandabmallorca for all things wellness in Mallorca.

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Wellness: Breathing Through Grief and Into Life – The Work of Danny Veerman, Soul Breath Mallorca

There are moments in life that shift the course of everything that follows. For Danny Veerman, founder of Soul Breath Mallorca, that moment came on March 17, 2023, when his daughter Sarah passed away in Austria. Faced with unbearable grief, he found himself standing on the edge of despair—until a quiet inner voice urged him to simply breathe. That simple act became his anchor. For months afterward, Danny practiced conscious connected breathing every day. It became both an outlet for his pain and a place of solace. Through tears, screams, and the raw ache of loss, he also found moments of calm and even bliss. Breathwork, which he had first encountered years earlier at an Ayahuasca retreat, revealed itself as not just a tool but a lifeline. As he now says with quiet certainty: “My breathwork saved my life.” From Lawyer to Healer Danny’s path to this work has been anything but linear. For three decades he lived and worked as a lawyer in the Netherlands, until in 2010 he decided to step away from courtroom battles and train as a mediator. The shift from adversarial argument to collaborative resolution awakened a new interest: the psychology of conflict. By 2016, he had trained as a coach, eventually focusing on couples counselling. Music, too, was always part of his life—he played in bands (The Love Handles and a JJ Cale tribute group) and loved spending time on his boat, Elvis, exploring the canals of Amsterdam. But when Sarah died, everything changed. Coaching, counselling, and music remained important, but grief and breathwork together redirected him toward a deeper mission. Breathwork as Transformation So what exactly is breathwork? At its core, it is the conscious use of breathing techniques to influence the nervous system. As Danny explains, “By breathing high in the chest you can induce your parasympathetic nervous system, releasing adrenaline and alertness. By breathing slowly, with long out-breaths, you calm the body. Most people don’t realise they carry this powerful tool within them.” In the conscious connected breathing sessions he now facilitates, Danny guides people into a state where the thinking mind quiets and the subconscious emerges. Here, memories and emotions long stored in the body can be accessed, processed, and released. The results can be profound: breakthroughs in personal healing, emotional release, or simply deep relaxation. Unlike traditional talk therapy, breathwork is somatic—working with the body rather than just cognition. “When you talk, the conscious mind is at work, and people sometimes hide behind answers they think are acceptable,” Danny explains. “Breathwork bypasses that filter, activating the subconscious where the real stories are stored.” A Mission Shaped by Loss Danny has trained in 9D Breathwork, a transformative practice combining music, guidance, and multi-sensory stimulation over 90 minutes. His sessions attract people from all walks of life: hotel owners, yacht crew, airline pilots, young seekers, and even other breathwork teachers. Some arrive seeking healing from trauma or grief, others simply curious, and many leave with a sense of release they didn’t expect. His mission, born from personal tragedy, is clear: “I want to dedicate my life to helping people connect with others and (re)connect with themselves.” This includes his coaching work, often weaving breathwork into couples counselling. For those who struggle to express emotions, a breathwork session before coaching can open doors that talking alone cannot. Danny believes passionately that awareness of breath should begin in childhood. Having lived with asthma and years of heavy medication, he often wonders how his life might have been different if a breath coach had guided him early on. “It would be amazing if parents paid attention to how their children breathe,” he says. Grief, Growth, and Guidance Danny doesn’t pretend grief is something to “get over.” Instead, he sees it as growth: “The grief for the loss of my daughter stays, but I have grown bigger.” He gives himself permission to speak of Sarah when he feels ready, and also permission not to answer when it is too much. It’s a balance of openness and self-protection, one he encourages others to honour. His guiding philosophy is written on his skin: Memento Mori and Amor Fati—“Remember, this life will end, so live it fully. Love your fate.” Sarah, he says, is with him every day, and he honours her by living joyfully and helping others find healing through breath. My Experience at Soul Breath Mallorca If you have ever wondered whether breathwork could help you, let me add my own experience. From the moment you arrive at Danny’s sanctuary in Mallorca, you feel held in a safe and healing space surrounded by nature and tranquility. His sessions are masterfully guided, combining music and technique to take you on a journey inward. What struck me most was how natural it felt to let go under his guidance. His own story—his pain, resilience, and wisdom—infuses the space with authenticity. In a single session, you begin to sense the possibility of release from old blockages, even from places within yourself you didn’t know existed. Danny’s 9D Breathwork is not just a technique—it is a healing art. For me, it was a profound journey back to a more authentic version of myself, lighter and clearer. The space held, the place and the overall experience truly feels like finding a little piece of heaven in Mallorca. 📌 Soul Breath MallorcaSessions with Danny Veerman🌐 www.soulbreathmallorca.com📧 danny@soulbreathmallorca.com📱 WhatsApp: +34 686 701 080Instagram: @dannyveermanbreathwork

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A Journey of Healing, One Chapter at a Time

Healing Has a Voice: Recording Growing Through Grief at Phoenix Mallorca Studios Amanda J Butler joins co-author Vicki McLeod at Phoenix Mallorca Studios to record her chapter of Growing Through Grief—a powerful anthology of healing, resilience, and shared humanity. Available now on Amazon and Kindle. There’s something profoundly healing about giving grief a voice. This week, I had the pleasure of stepping into the studio with the wonderful Vicki McLeod, fellow co-author of Growing Through Grief, to record my chapter for the upcoming audiobook edition. We spent the morning at Phoenix Mallorca Studios, bringing our words to life—and what a moving experience it was. Growing Through Grief is a powerful anthology written by 14 women who have each faced loss in their own way—and grown through it. Grief shows up in countless ways—through the end of a relationship, a career shift, a change in identity, or the passing of a love done. It isn’t something we simply “get over,” but something we grow through—embracing change, uncovering lessons, and sometimes even finding the hidden gifts within. The book has already touched many hearts since its publication, and now, as we record each chapter for the upcoming audiobook edition, those stories are gaining new life through spoken word. As I read my chapter aloud, I felt again the rawness and renewal that writing it first brought. There’s something different about hearing your own voice say the words your heart once whispered—it’s both humbling and empowering. In that quiet, soundproof room, healing felt tangible, almost rhythmic—like the waves of this island itself. The audiobook is set to launch in late 2025 or early 2026, but you can already find the book on Amazon and Kindle here. Priced at cost in order to help and assist anyone in need Grief will always shape us—but when we share our stories, we remind each other that healing isn’t about forgetting, it’s about remembering with love. Recording Growing Through Grief reminded me that our voices are part of our wellness journey too—that speaking our truth is one of the most profound ways we can heal.

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Dining Under the Stars at Lucinda’s Organic Citrus Farm

An evening celebrating the essence of Tuscany in the heart of Mallorca There are some evenings that stay with you — where every sense is gently awakened and time seems to soften. My recent visit to Lucinda’s organic citrus farm, in Lloret de Vista Alegre, was one of those evenings — a soulful gathering under the stars, surrounded by nature, creativity, and community. Lucinda, an organic citrus farmer dedicated to permaculture and creative living, has cultivated more than just a thriving orchard in the rolling countryside near Sineu. She has created a living, breathing expression of connection — to the land, to the seasons, and to the people she welcomes to her table. Her farm produces certified organic lemons, the base of her exquisite organic lemonade, and oranges, that she also supplies to Montimare Spritz, a refreshing citrus aperitivo inspired by the Mediterranean. The evening’s event was billed as “The Essence of Tuscany – Dinner Under the Stars,” and it truly lived up to its promise. Partnering with Chef Andrea Bettin, a Venetian chef whose roots run deep in Italian culinary tradition, Lucinda hosted an experience that wove together the authenticity of both Italy and Mallorca. From Rugby Fields to Fine Cuisine Chef Andrea’s story is as rich as his dishes. Born on the outskirts of Venice, his early love of food was nurtured in his grandfather’s vegetable garden and through his mother’s homemade bread. Before turning his passion into a career, Andrea played for the Italian national rugby team, even winning the national championship. After hanging up his boots, he dedicated himself fully to the kitchen, training across Italy and eventually working alongside Michelin-starred chef Floriano Pellegrino at Bros. Now based in Mallorca, Andrea brings with him that unmistakable Italian spirit — robust, soulful, and generous — perfectly complementing the setting of Lucinda’s farm. Walking the Land As guests arrived, we were greeted with a refreshing herbal tea infusion, served as the late afternoon light softened over the citrus groves. Lucinda led us on a gentle walk through her orchards, their trees heavy with fruit, the air rich with the scent of lemons and herbs. We continued up through her vegetable and herb gardens, learning about her dedication to organic farming and permaculture principles — how every plant, insect, and patch of soil has its role in the delicate balance of her ecosystem. At the top of the path, we reached a pergola overlooking the valley, where we were welcomed with Montimare Spritz, made from Lucinda’s own lemons, alongside bowls of citrus hummus and Andrea’s warm olive and tomato focaccia. From this spot, the view stretched across the orchards and towards the distant mountains, bathed in a golden evening light. Dining Beneath the Stars As dusk fell, long tables were beautifully set beside the pool, adorned with flowers and vegetables from the garden, flickering candles, and a soft soundtrack of Italian melodies. Dinner unfolded as a sumptuous Italian-style buffet, crafted from Lucinda’s organic produce and ingredients sourced from the Sineu market. Each dish felt like a celebration of the Mediterranean — vibrant, fresh, and full of love. The evening closed with a perfect finale: a Tiramisu infused with lemon mascarpone, followed by a smooth Limoncello digestive — a sweet, citrusy nod to Lucinda’s beloved lemons. A Taste of Connection As the stars shimmered above and conversation flowed among the 25 guests, it felt like more than just a dinner — it was a celebration of community, creativity, and conscious living. Lucinda’s vision and Andrea’s artistry came together seamlessly, reminding us how food, land, and connection intertwine. It was a night that captured the true spirit of slow living in Mallorca — where the simple act of sharing a meal becomes a moment of beauty and belonging. With gratitude to:🍋 Lucinda Mallorca — Organic Citrus Farmer & Host👨‍🍳 Chef Andrea Bettin — Private Chef, Mallorca🥂 Montimare Spritz — The taste of Mediterranean summer Written by Amanda J ButlerFounder of AJButlerProperty.com & WellnessTraveller.coExploring the intersection of home, wellness, and conscious living in Mallorca.

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This week I interviewed Jenni Glad, a solution oriented ADHD/ND coach for my Majorca Daily Bulletin article

Understanding Neurodiversity: Lessons for Parents and Families Neurodiversity is a word many of us had never heard until recent years — yet today, it’s part of everyday conversations in families around the world. For me, the topic recently became personal when my niece was diagnosed with ADHD and Autism at 14 years old. Like many, I had thought of certain behaviours as a lack of boundaries and often times bad manners. But meeting and speaking with Jenni Glad, an ADHA/ND coach and hypnotherapist who identifies as neurodivergent herself, opened my eyes to what life looks like through a different lens. Jenni describes herself as an “ADHD-er,” choosing not to say she has ADHD but rather that it’s part of who she is. Diagnosed later in life — a common story, especially among women apparently— Jenni recalls excelling at school until the demands grew, and then watching things unravel without the support she needed. Looking back, she sees how ADHD shaped her adventurous spirit, impulsive choices, and career path that eventually led her to coaching and hypnotherapy. But it hasn’t all been easy. Neurodivergence often brings challenges in relationships, finances, and self-esteem. That’s why, she explains, coaching can be life-changing: it helps people build routines, develop tools for focus, and learn how they work best in a world not always designed for different brain wiring. What does neurodiversity really mean? Neurodiversity is about the natural variations in the human brain. Jenni explains that neurodiverse refers to a group of people, while neurodivergent describes an individual. For those with ADHD, differences often appear in executive functioning — skills like organization, planning, and time management. What seems simple for one person — say, booking an appointment — can feel almost impossible on some days, while on other days it’s no problem. That paradox is a hallmark of ADHD, and it can be frustrating for both the person and their family. Add to that the emotional intensity many neurodivergent people experience — mood swings, anxiety, depression — and it becomes clearer why support is so vital. Why the sharp rise in diagnoses? Modern life plays a big role. Children are exposed to screens and devices earlier than ever, with constant notifications competing for attention. “Screens overstimulate the brain, contribute to anxiety, and make focus harder,” Jenni explains. And while awareness and better diagnostic tools account for part of the rise, the demands of today’s world also mean more children struggle to cope. The good news is that recognition is growing, and with it comes a chance for more holistic approaches that look beyond medication — incorporating lifestyle, environment, and practical strategies. Adolescence and ADHD Adolescence is already a stormy sea, but for neurodivergent teens it can feel like a tsunami. Hormones, especially in girls, most often intensify symptoms around puberty and continue to play a role throughout life. According to research these conditions can often present differently in boys and girls – with boys more likely to receive a diagnosis during childhood where hyperactivity is more common, while girls may be diagnosed later or not at all, since autistic girls and women may mask their signs of autism. This delay in diagnosis can lead to a lack of early support and intervention. Jenni continued “Many ADHD-ers struggle with low self-esteem and confidence, because from a young age they’ve often received feedback that they’re doing things wrong, not meeting expectations, or not fitting in. For example, school subjects like math or complex verbal tasks can feel especially difficult, and when that struggle is misunderstood, kids may be labeled as “not smart” — which isn’t true at all, but that repeated feedback can deeply affect how they see themselves. Anxiety, depression, and emotional ups and downs are also common. Doubting themselves and not feeling “good enough” can become a repeating cycle. Socially, friendships can also be hard to maintain. Neurodivergent kids may face challenges with social skills, communication styles, or simply finding peers who understand them. This can make building supportive and reliable friendships more difficult. So while every young person’s experience is unique, the themes I most often hear about include self-esteem struggles, emotional regulation, academic challenges, and difficulties with friendships and social belonging.” Parents may notice their teenagers retreating to their rooms, headphones on, lost in games or scrolling endlessly. For neurodivergent children, hyperfocus means they can become completely absorbed, often unaware of time passing. Without careful guidance, blue screen overstimulation can tip into stress, anxiety and even depression. Many parents are left feeling lost. They don’t know how to help their children, or even fully understand what’s going on. The good news is that awareness is growing, but we still need more education and more emphasis on lifestyle, environment, and practical strategies alongside any medical support. Jenni stresses that connection is key. Children need to feel seen, heard, and loved — not just corrected. “Guidance works best when built on a foundation of connection,” she says. Routines, timers, and accountability help, but what matters most is that kids feel understood and included in healthy social interactions. What can parents and families do at home? Jenni shares a wealth of practical advice for families: These techniques are valuable for all children, but for neurodivergent kids, they can make the difference between feeling misunderstood and feeling empowered. Coaching and hypnotherapy: A way forward For many, coaching provides the structure and accountability that ADHD brains crave, while hypnotherapy works on deeper beliefs and emotional blocks. Together, they help both children and adults release the story that “something is wrong with me” and replace it with a more empowering narrative. A message of hope Perhaps Jenni’s most powerful message is one of hope — for both parents and young people. “Remind your child every day that they are unique, wonderful, and more than enough as they are. They matter. They’re important.” Neurodiversity runs in families, and sometimes a child’s diagnosis leads parents to recognize their own ADHD for the first time. That, Jenni believes, can be

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